When is it too far?

So, I’m going to start off with a rant…. excuse me for one moment as I unload my thoughts on you :). I’ve recently had a coworker use a racial slur aimed at me.. ok, let me pause for a moment. I know what you’re thinking,(Not this again),but this seems to be a topic which needs to be discussed. When is it ok to use a racial slur? Is it ever ok and why should they be limited when they are overused in our generations music? Am I being overly sensitive because a word cut me so deep? Idk it just seems like I’m missing a major memo that other people understood. What are your thoughts?

Should I get tough skin and accept them in daily life or is there a time and a place for these words?

Till next time

– Lovely

Which one?

This week has been CRAZY!!!…. not to mention I have alot of task on my plate ( I can be an over-achiever at times) 🙂 But, I have been faced with alot of choices I had to make. Some by choice and others by force. I don’t know about you but as I get older the harder the choices get. Which brings me to the question, Should you follow your heart or your mind?
I know this is “cliche” BUT it is a serious issue. I feel like, when I choose to think rationally about a situation I make it a bigger deal than it originally was or I do the opposite and not think it through enough. But, when I follow my gut or my “heart”, Im going off a feeling and that makes me feel SUPER insecure. So, what should I do when faced with an issue? Follow my heart of my mind? Or find that sweet medium?

Well until next time,

Lovely <3

Well there really is a first time for everything….

I did it! After years, weeks, months of deciding I made a blog and made it public. Now in real life I am a shy person but I challenged myself to step out of my “comfort zone” and just do it. 🙂 I had to choose between living a lifestyle for the next 60 years or try to make something of myself, by reading this blog I hope you know which one I choose. This is exciting and I am ready to try something new which will take me to new places, where ill meet new people and create many opportunities! See ya on the next one! 🙂

– Lovely

Lets Talk?

Are you bored? Want something new to read? Or do you want to add a topic to any conversation? Well…. you found the right blog 🙂 Hi, my name is lovely and its always good to let go of your opinions and discover new facts, think about new things or try something new, So with that said sit back, relax and pull up a topic and discover yourself with me.


Thanks for stopping by

–  Lovely